I was setting out to take a day trip to Kern River Preserve
.... and all of a sudden I heard my inner voice say ..Enjoy
yourself. ...Enjoy the journey. What a wonderful reminder as on my
way there I saw acres upon acres of groves, the ever present Kern
River roping from one side of the road to the other, boats filled
with groups river rafting on the Kern, beautiful Lake Isabella in
all its splendor and finally my destination the beautiful habitat
for birds and other wildlife at the Kern River Preserve.
Imagine this: Instead of waiting to arrive at our destination
before enjoying our vacation, we can actually enjoy making all the
arrangements, the packing and even taking the trip to the airport.
Instead of waiting for that big opportunity or break to occur we
enjoy exactly what they are doing now. Instead of waiting for
something to change we are enjoying what is. Instead of waiting for
that ideal relationship to happen we enjoy life exactly as it
is.
Most people spend their days getting things done so they can
move on to the next thing. We always have destinations that we have
to get to. (They may be physical places we are trying to get to or
tasks that we want to achieve). Often, we are not doing the task at
hand for its own sake, but for the end result, so we can move on to
something else. When we live in this way everything becomes a chore
to be done and gotten out of the way and the whole time we are
usually thinking about the next chore on the list. Life can soon
become a drag!
There is nothing wrong with setting goals and achieving them,
but never think that any one goal, will be your ultimate
destination, or this will result in ever lasting happiness and
fulfillment. There will always be something more - something
bigger, better, more powerful, faster etc. that we will
desire.
There is a a story about a man who set out to climb Mt.
Everest; just before he got to the top he died. And people said "How
tragic, he almost made it ... How tragic he was so close to reaching
his goal." In fact, the reality of life is such that you never do
get to the top. The climb is the goal. The top of the mountain is
only the direction, but it is not the destination. Even Moses never
reached the Promised Land, he died on the way. But the truth is we
all die on the way. Is that tragic? Not if you live your life
knowing that the way is the goal and that there is a precious lesson
to be learned with every step of the way —-
So make
sure that you enjoy the journey!
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